I am enough. There is enough. I trust my journey, my wounds and my process. I’m not a victim, nor a savior. I am here to heal and be healed, to bless and be blessed in the fire of transformation.
Sometimes people in spiritual communities talk about “soul contracts”. I think they mean prearranged agreements or purposes that we made before birth. To me, this is tasteless. It’s metaphysical capitalism to say the soul needs any kind of reason to incarnate, like there is some thing we’re supposed to “get” out of life experience. Life mining? Extractive living? No thanks.
What if life experience is the end goal of life? That works better for my metaphysical aesthetic. It’s a process that way. It’s a circle instead of a straight line. It’s comforting. Being here, just to be here, to enjoy my life is enough for me. Life becomes limitless when I dissolve any concepts I have about what I “should” be doing.
If it were true, I would be free to do all the things I really want to do: grow my own food, make a beautiful home, explore widely, have long talks, walks and explore with others. Like Charles Eisenstien says,
The More Beautiful World Our Hearts Know Is Possible
becomes real to me if I’m not here on some mission of attainment. I can put down the abacus and really be here, now.
This attitude is problematic in our culture. We have no cultural practice engaging our sympathetic nervous system and “resting and digesting” in all this accelerated evolution. We need to do this urgently (ironic: relax STAT!!!–but so true). Also we need to play, we need to love and we need to let our hearts guide our heads more. Our lives have become too urgent, too much of an emergency. Keeping on like this is taking us too far from healing, wholeness and balance. It doesn’t make sense anymore to believe in the old story of lack. We don’t have to create the way we did before. You are the forge of creation. Lead with your heart. Surrender to what you love.
The March 1 full moon falls in the Vedic sign of Leo. It tells us to be authentic to our hearts. Any denial of the authentic self will only deepen the crisis. Breathe on the fire of your heart instead and dissolve agreements that you made unconsciously. That was a previous stage of evolution. We are energy exchange here and now. “The lesson of Leo, however, is to use this energy generously, sharing it with those around us, not hoarding it greedily. The nature of the Sun is sattvic, and the true potential of Leo is to purify ourselves and then share our divine light with others.” ~ Somya Devi
Consider this. You put one seed in the ground, what is your return on that investment? Probably something like 1:100 at a minimum. The investment in lack and hoarding that goes on here on Earth is completely nonsensical. It has built a planet where personal abundance has been hijacked by illusion. We believe in lack. We buy into scarcity. So deep is this dogma that we cannot even see the imaginary shackles chaining us to deficiency when this is obviously not nature’s truth. Thankfully, this full moon will help us move this bullshit belief.
You might think that it will take some pretty powerful metaphysical laxatives to clear our collective colon, but there again, what if you are deceived? What if the work is already done? What if your greatest adversaries have been embodying and amplifying the planetary constipation for you? What if the hard part is over and now all we’ve got to do is believe what our hearts know is true? (Or what if that has been the hard part all along?)
Lucky for us, this full moon falls in Purva Phalguni nakshatra, in the very center of the Leo constellation. It is symbolized by the hammock or the marriage bed and brings us feelings of luxury, sensuality and beautiful, swaying harmony. Bhaga, the presiding god of this lunar mansion, is both benevolent and blind; generous to all beings with his abundant spiritual and material gifts. Venus will transit into Pisces a few hours after the lunation (5:51pm MST) and resume the softer incarnation as the evening star in this sign of its’ exaltation. Knowing when too much of a good thing starts to drown the giving fire is an important discernment Thursday night.
If Venus is well-aspected, we embody harmonious compromise with people, substances and things. If it occupies a more difficult space, our boundaries may be a little leaky with, well, everything. Here, we board the ferry into the Greek concept pharmakon where it’s a challenge to tell the poison from the cure. Every concept is 2 things or extremes on a spectrum. What is medicine for one person is deadly poison for another. Dosage is key: all things in moderation including moderation.
Both the Vedic and the western charts are moving toward (the former) or already in (the latter) Piscean waters in March. The depths there can be hard to navigate without the inclusion of discerning and healing Virgoan influence, Pisces’ opposite sign across the zodiac. Again, lucky for us, the tropical full moon falls there (all full moons are oppositions of sun and moon). The charts lately are extreme and densely aspected. Even though we have emerged from the kala saarpa imbalance, this travelling stellium of personal planets has all the subtlety of a tsunami.
Here’s the Vedic (sidereal) chart. The stellium is still in Aquarius.
Here’s the Western (tropical) chart, with the stellium in Pisces.
I plan to get more involved with the Pisces stellium later when it happens in the Vedic chart (one reason I take a both/and approach here–I get two chances to understand). There’s a few things to keep in mind: Chiron in Pisces represents the spiritual wound of the Piscean age AND this is super positively aspected, so healing of this “wounded and lacking” mentality may be available in a new way. There may be a high level of psychic attunement available and creativity is on the rise. While we are purging and cleaning (Virgo) some amazing new ideas may come. Being open to connection is great, but overexpansion can happen. Inflation of ego and delusion are possible. Trust your intuition. Be skeptical. Double check the details.
Pisces is the Omega, the end, the dissolution of certainty, structure and foundation. The boundaries are washed away with Neptunian depth. He’s not fond of your fixed identity and will flood the foundations of things you trust. He will also test your honesty and integrity. This weekend is going to be a soul cleansing process. Let it happen. Release the old trauma. It’s safe to relax in the mystical polarity of Virgo and Pisces if you can keep it in balance and ground yourself. There is a beautiful spiritual connection on offer, but the absence of connection is also there. This is an important time to center and align body, mind and spirit with what you really feel is the source of all life.
The insight I keep returning to is that these cycles help uncover our true nature: any denial of our authenticity will deepen the crisis. Over-identification with either victim or oppressor archetypes will cause contraction, not the needed expansion. The collective spiritual wounding of Chiron in Pisces is that millions died for their beliefs in the past, but we still have to find a way to believe in the present, or we carry the perpetual wound of the terminal centaur (Chiron shot himself in the leg with a poison of his own creation and could never fully heal it). Watch the extremes here in the “axis of sacrifice”.
Final words on trauma (for now). Trauma is a story of the past. Left unchecked, revisiting the same story repeatedly has been shown to literally drag our cellular body back into the same parasympatheic response (fight or flight) that was experienced in the original wounding. Neural pathways support this recidivism by literally carving electrical routes in the brain. Despite all that, you are not your experiences, just like you are not your happiness or your sadness.
While it is not easy and it is (IMHO) the spiritual practice of a lifetime, we must alter the patterns of past pain if we are going to bless this world with our presence in the present. My only power is here and now and this is the only place where I can evolve beyond what came before. Abuse and pain are not good teachers. Their time is over.
We can chose to be good conduits for another kind of learning. We can hear and validate the story of trauma in order to release, heal and transform it. Those of you who attend lunar yoga know that I believe the breath and bodily movement not only develop our strength and capacity, but they move trauma lodged in the body into the earth, where it can be properly recycled. But it needs to be heard and validated, not stuffed down and ignored. Taking the time to be with our feelings is a wisdom that all tantric arts teach, yoga is just one of those many arts.
There is a beautiful spiritual connection to Gaia becoming available through this full moon that can help us heal and transform traumas effecting our our own personal past and our ancestral stories that are still with us. The old story that tells us spiritual evolution yields catastrophe is ripe for challenge and it may set your personal creativity on fire. To the purifying flame.